99 Self-Love Affirmations for Self-Worth and Self-Acceptance: Cultivate More Love Within This Valentine's Week

Hello, beautiful soul!

Valentine’s Day is a time for love, but I want to invite you to take this week to focus on the most important relationship you’ll ever have—the one with yourself. Too often, we look to others for validation, approval, or love, but true self-love comes from within. It’s a practice, and it’s something you get to choose every single day.

Both personally and in my work, I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it can be to nurture yourself with kind words and loving thoughts. That's why I’ve put together these 99 affirmations, designed to help you unlock your self-worth and practice radical self-acceptance.

Whether you prefer to see the words, hear them, feel them, or even say them aloud, I’ve included a variety of affirmations to suit all types of learner styles. So, no matter how you connect with yourself best, there’s an affirmation here for you.

At the end of this blog, I'll explain how best to work with the affirmations that resonate, depending on your learner style. If you're not sure what yours is, you can take a test to find out.

99 Affirmations for Self-Worth and Self-Acceptance

1. I am worthy of love and respect.
2. I feel confident in who I am becoming.
3. I can handle anything that comes my way.
4. I love and honour myself deeply.
5. I see the beauty in every part of me.
6. I know that I am deserving of all the good things in life.
7. I can achieve anything I set my mind to.
8. I do not need validation from others to feel complete.
9. I feel proud of all I’ve accomplished.
10. I love the person I am today and the person I am becoming.
11. I know that my worth is not determined by external factors.
12. I can let go of negativity and embrace positivity.
13. I do not compare myself to others; my journey is unique.
14. I feel worthy of success and abundance.
15. I love my body, and I take care of it with respect.
16. I say “no” when something doesn’t serve me, and that’s okay.
17. I know that I am capable of achieving my dreams.
18. I can forgive myself and move forward with love and grace.
19. I feel at peace with who I am and where I’m headed.
20. I know that I am enough, just as I am.
21. I love myself enough to set healthy boundaries.
22. I can accept myself, flaws and all.
23. I see my strengths and embrace them fully.
24. I know that I am deserving of love and kindness from myself and others.
25. I feel joy in the present moment and trust that it will always be enough.
26. I can create the life I desire with my thoughts and actions.
27. I say positive things to myself every day to build my self-worth.
28. I see every challenge as an opportunity to grow.
29. I know that my self-worth is inherent and not based on achievements.
30. I feel empowered to let go of things that no longer serve me.
31. I can overcome any obstacle that stands in my way.
32. I do my best every day, and that is enough.
33. I love the person I am becoming with each passing day.
34. I see abundance and opportunities all around me.
35. I know I have the strength to handle any challenge that comes my way.
36. I say “yes” to the things that nourish my soul and bring me peace.
37. I can express myself authentically without fear or doubt.
38. I do not need to be perfect to be loved and accepted.
39. I love myself even when I make mistakes.
40. I see the beauty in my imperfections and embrace them.
41. I know that I am deserving of all the happiness and peace I seek.
42. I feel grounded in who I am and where I am headed.
43. I can create balance in my life and prioritise self-care.
44. I do not let fear or doubt control my decisions.
45. I love myself unconditionally, no matter what.
46. I see myself achieving everything I desire with confidence.
47. I know that I am a valuable person with so much to offer.
48. I feel grateful for every lesson life brings me.
49. I can release the need for approval and trust my own worth.
50. I do not apologise for taking up space in this world.
51. I love the person I am, flaws and all.
52. I say “thank you” to myself for all the ways I show up each day.
53. I see beauty in the smallest of moments.
54. I know I am always worthy of love, regardless of my circumstances.
55. I feel excited about the future and all that it holds for me.
56. I can turn my dreams into reality through dedication and hard work.
57. I do not let fear of failure stop me from pursuing my dreams.
58. I love the journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
59. I see my life as a beautiful, unfolding adventure.
60. I know that my dreams are possible, and I am worthy of achieving them.
61. I feel confident in my own skin and celebrate my uniqueness.
62. I can set boundaries that protect my energy and well-being.
63. I do not need to compare my progress to others; I am on my own path.
64. I love the journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
65. I see every day as a new opportunity to love and care for myself.
66. I know that I am deserving of deep and meaningful relationships.
67. I feel at peace with the decisions I make for myself.
68. I can express my needs and desires clearly and confidently.
69. I say “no” to anything that does not align with my values.
70. I love my authentic self and allow myself to shine.
71. I see every challenge as an opportunity for growth and healing.
72. I know that my worth is not based on my past mistakes.
73. I feel grateful for my body and treat it with kindness.
74. I can handle anything life throws my way with strength and resilience.
75. I do not need to be perfect to be worthy of love and respect.
76. I love my journey and trust that I am always growing.
77. I see my life as a beautiful, unfolding adventure.
78. I know that I am worthy of success, happiness, and love.
79. I feel calm and at peace with who I am right now.
80. I can achieve anything I set my mind to, one step at a time.
81. I say “yes” to opportunities that align with my higher purpose.
82. I love myself fully, exactly as I am, and embrace all that I am becoming.
83. I see my potential, and I am excited to fulfill it.
84. I know that self-love is the foundation of all other love.
85. I feel empowered to make decisions that align with my values and goals.
86. I can embrace change and trust that it’s leading me to something better.
87. I do not need to seek approval from others to feel valid.
88. I love the person I am today and the person I am becoming.
89. I see abundance everywhere, and I welcome it into my life.
90. I know that I am always learning and evolving into my best self.
91. I say “thank you” to myself for every small victory I achieve.
92. I can choose thoughts that support my well-being and happiness.
93. I do not let others' opinions define my sense of self-worth.
94. I love myself deeply, and I am proud of the person I am.
95. I see the potential for greatness within me and nurture it every day.
96. I know that I am deserving of all the love I give to others.
97. I feel confident in my ability to create the life I desire.
98. I can achieve my dreams with patience and persistence.
99. I say “I am enough” and believe it wholeheartedly.

Ready to Work with the Affirmations in the Best Way for You?

Affirmations are an incredible tool to reprogram your mind and shift your energy. They serve as positive reminders of your worth, beauty, and potential. But here's the secret—when you connect with these affirmations in a way that works for you, their likely to be even more effective.

• Visual learners: Take a moment to see these affirmations in your mind’s eye, or even create some art or a vision board that reflects the self-love affirmations.
• Auditory learners: Speak them out loud, or record yourself saying them, then listen back and let the words sink in.
• Reading/Writing: Grab your journal and write down the affirmations you like most. Jot them onto post it notes and stick them up where you’ll read them often.
• Kinesthetic learners: Say them while moving, dancing, or stretching your body, feeling the energy flow as you affirm your strength and beauty.

Note: Affirmations are not a quick fix, nor are they the one thing that will change your life. Affirmations are a supportive tool in reprogramming deeply held beliefs in your subconscious mind, when repeated regularly, and should be used alongside other supportive and healing practices.

Want to Practice Self-Love Regularly?

If you’re looking for a deeper connection with other like-minded women who are on a path of personal development, self-love, and empowerment, I invite you to join my Soulshine Sister Circle.

This is a space where we come together to support, uplift, and empower each other every month.

Join us on Zoom the last Wednesday of every month at 7:30pm UK time for a beautiful gathering of women from all walks of life. It’s your time to nurture yourself, cultivate self-love, and build connections that support your growth.

Join the Soulshine Sister Circle here

We would love to welcome you into our community, one that celebrates you, honours your authenticity, and supports your self-love journey.

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